Just a friendly reminder to everyone who is struggling, being bullied and many others terrible things that shouldn't happen to anyone, I just want to let you know that you are worth it and nothing is your fault. The reason people are this way is because they are either jealous or they aren't doing as well as you and they want to take you down, thinking that if you aren't happy they might have a chance at being better at whatever it is. (Make sense?) Just because they are unhappy doesn't mean that you have to be unhappy as well. I know it's hard to focus on happiness in such a negative environment, but you just have to take a second and realize that whatever negativity that's floating around doesn't need to affect you and your mood. I can't tell you why because you have to figure it out for yourself, it can be different for every person.
If you are in a toxic friendship like that, you need to cut them out of your life because you do NOT need that negativity in your life. Make sure you do what makes you happy and don't sacrifice your happiness to keep friends. Real friends wouldn't do this to you, real friends will make sure you're happy, they will make sure everything is okay, they won't bring you down, won't ask for the gift they gave you for Christmas back, they won't make you feel like you're not important, they won't bully and say they're only doing it to "protect you" and they will pay you back the money you lent to them and not try to get money out of you because you own expensive things and KNOW you have money and they "need" the money .
You are going to deal with people like this sometime in your life, but if you don't be grateful because what I've been through/still going through and what other people are going through is tough and tiresome and at times lonely, but you are not alone. Talk to your parents, talk to faculty! You can also contact me! Just remember that you ARE worth it, you are NOT ALONE! (one of the many reasons I started this Blog and my Youtube Channel, is to connect with other people and to share what I've been through to help others and to find others that are out there dealing with what I am dealing with!)
Your days will get better, it just takes time, but in the end, you will turn out stronger than you were before the mess happened just don't give up hope! =)
- Something that I've learned is that friends come and go, but true friends are forever.
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